Thursday, August 03, 2006
after break stil remain fren?
i think lots of ppl face this kind of situation afterthey break v their love 1..."wat should i respond when face him o her?".."i feel so embarrass when meet her o him"..i do face this kind of problem oso s i m a normal human bein...i went thru an article somedays ago...ther is 1 sentence in the article tat reli draw my attention"if u cn fren bec v ur ex tat mean u all nvr reli love eah other b4!"tis sentence reli mak me frustrated.."y the author say so".."is it real"..?s i mention above i been went thru tis situation..n nw i do agree v wat the author say..coz ...if u reli love ur partners u ll giv it all u cn 2 him o her..n u willin 2 share all the bad n gd v them..n u ll think tat they r the perfect..after u break..u cant b fren?y?jus bcoz she o he is stil the best u ever had n u angry v them..mad v them...s u stil very k n love them!tat y after break cant b fren!..if u break n stil cn b fren?tats mean u just take them s the spare tire only..n dun reli ve d heart 2 lov n v them..wat u 1 from them is want to fill ur free time!..tat is very bad huh?so wat u all think ?
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hey bro,4 me...i tin tat is totally ridiculous!!! 4 me,ex can stil b fren,s long s he/she dun mind...in my opinion, if u cant b fren v ex,which is a gal/guy tat u once love so much o til now, tat means u dun1 2 let go stin tat not belongin 2 u...at least 4 now k...ppl say so coz they cant let go...n yet they wanna others 2 hav same opinion v them, so tat it ll eventually bcome a 'fact' o 'truth'...i never agree v those articles...actually in d world of love,nobody should b blamed o angry...tho they ve hurt u so much o even reject u!! if same tin happen 2 u,wat ll u do??u hav a better choice front of u now,ll u stil stick 2 d previous candidate? once d feelin is gone,its hard 2 turn bec d tin...evbody no tat!! stime i do feel tat human is very tiny...s we never hav d power 2 change d tin tat happend o even stop d time...so wat we can do is 2 accept...since tat last time u can frenz n k so much v d ppl u love,y when d time change,u cant even treat him/her s fren?even s a normal fren?? is it d time can play a fool of ur thinkin?? is it really worth 4 u 2 lost a fren coz of dis opinion? is it u can show him/her tat u stil love them so much by hating them?? tin about tat...
You know I won't agree with this. When you can't face your ex, it's because you still love the person, you still haven't let go. Definitely it's not because you didn't love the person enough when you were together. If that's the case, everyone will only be given one chance, everyone can only fall in love once, if you don't marry your first love, then you are meant to be single for the rest of your life. Is that true? Obviously not. On the other hand, you can't let go, it's because you can't accept the fact that you failed in your first love, you can't accpet that she doesn't love you anymore. Anyway, the truth is people do grow and change. When we realised that or only the person we love realised that we are not meant for each other, then we know it's time for us to let go. The reason is very simple, just because relationship is always two ways. If only one side is persuing, there is no relationship formed. Even to the point that you forced the person to marry you, to me that's is still not considered in a relationship. Sometimes heart can be deceitful. That's why we shouldn't always follow what our hearts say or what we feel. We should have a strong mind. A strong mind can control our hearts and how we feel. Let our minds tell us what to do not the hearts!!!
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